Our differences

 If I am asked how to end a conflict? My response would be through a dialogue. For me there is no issue in this world that can't be resolved through peaceful conversation. But I guess in today's world if you can oppress someone without uttering a single word, why bother yourself with talking? There are countless examples of misconduct against women. There are thousands stories regarding the intolerance against women. Shameful acts of exploitation which went unnoticed. Bigotry grudges concluding unhappy endings. Volumes of domestic atrocities waiting patiently for an audience. Tales of brutality yet not written.

 It all happens due to the difference created on the basis of incontrovertible theories. Strong beliefs put forward by twisting religion. Instigation by exploiting a certain weakness. If you ask me all those who had lost their lives in the name of honor killing were actually the victims of disparity. Those whose life were ruined by acid attack were victim of discrepancy. When we fail in understanding next person's view, we do horrible things under the illusion of doing something right. Humans are created different. They are allowed to have their own opinions. They have a right to think for themselves.

Instead of going with what people are saying, why not confront that person in person? Why not ask them? How long can it take? One reckless decision based on little knowledge can destroy someone's entire existence. It can literally ruin them.

 You talk about subjugation I'm talking about liberty. You are highlighting my security I'm emphasizing on my human rights. You try to justify honor killing with moral as your argument, I'm defending freedom of choice. Your fear for the society suffocates me. While I'm desperately trying to be strong here. I know you and I have a lot of differences. Things we don't agree on. Ideas that contradict with each other. But you need to know that they cannot be resolved by killing, screaming, silencing. We need to talk on them!

For once ask me why? And I'll tell you. Listen to my side of story before deciding. Hear out other version of what made you so hateful towards me. Try to understand it a bit before declaring me wrong. Allow me to show you things from my perspective. For once don't shut me down by raising your voice. Don't let people's opinions shadow you. For once convince me by just talking. Listen me out. I can think too. If I am wrong tell me, don't restrict me. If there is something you don't like let me know first. If I chose something try to respect my choice, stop imposing yours on me. Ask me and I'll tell you.

We need to sit down and talk like civilized people. We need to have that much courage to listen what the other had to say. The rumors has done enough damage. False statements has ravage enough reputations. That idea of absolute power has caused enough pain. 6 million every year should be enough for us to start talking. Now we talk. You and I. Face to face. We need to resolve our differences ourselves. We need to change the ending. One small step and I can assure you we can take a huge leap towards betterment.

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